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Tuesday, September 17, 2013

7 QUALITIES TO MAKE YOU A VISIONARY LEADER


 
7 QUALITIES TO MAKE YOU A VISIONARY LEADER.
 
 
 


They are imaginative
Visionary people can visualize things easily. When you talk to visionary leaders you can recognize them from the rest of the crowd because of their imagination. Visionaries can imagine future possibilities in their minds and then explain what they have imagined clearly. They imagine things that others cannot imagine. Through their imagination they can draw future possibilities for their organization/National.


They are big-picture oriented
You can recognize visionaries by their ability to see the big picture. In a group of people, visionary ones talk about the big picture and how various factors link together to create that picture. They see the whole process and not a single step.
Since visionary leaders are big-picture oriented, they are not attached. They are not worried about why this happened and why that did not happen. They enjoy the whole process. They are patient. They see all the links in the big picture and therefore they do not blame others.


They are focused and present
When you are in presence of a true visionary, you can feel their power. Visionaries are powerful because they are focused and present. In other words, focus and presence create power.
Since visionaries are present and focused, you can connect with them when they talk about what they have in mind, when they teach you something, or when they perform a task. People are more drawn to those who are focused and present. That is why visionaries have more followers.


They are open minded and fan of new ideas
Visionaries have open minds. They do not limit themselves to their own thoughts and ideas. When you talk to a visionary leader, he or she is open to what you talk about and listens to your ideas and thoughts attentively.
One thing that differentiates visionary leaders from other open minded people is that visionaries tell you their expectations upfront. They give you a big picture of what they have in mind. Then they let you be creative and come up with new ideas and thoughts on how to achieve that vision. They encourage you to be as creative as possible and never afraid of presenting your so called silly ideas.


They are positive energizers
Another sign of true visionaries is their positive attitude. Since visionaries are passionate about and connected with their vision, their positive energy level is typically high. As such, they act as positive energizers; that is, they recharge people with positive energy.
Due to their positive attitude, true visionaries are surrounded by positive people who are willing to help them achieve a common vision.


They are never afraid of failures
As mentioned earlier, true visionaries see what others cannot see. They see the big picture. They see the links among different events. They see possible obstacles. They know there would be challenges along the way. They know they might have temporary setbacks. But they also know the great value of fulfilling the vision. Therefore, true visionaries never give up. They are not afraid of failures because they know that failures are part of the process as well.
In a group of leaders, true visionaries can be recognized with their tendency towards taking risks and transforming those risks to opportunities. Their positive approach and their focus on the vision help them not be afraid of failures. Such leaders are willing to discover new paths and become searchlights for others. This is the secret of their success.


They share and communicate the dream/vision
One of the big signs of visionaries is their willingness for sharing their vision with the world. They don’t keep it to themselves because they know that they cannot get to the destination alone. They need others for filling the gaps and that is why they communicate their vision and dreams with others to attract the right people.
If you have these signs, I congratulate you for being a visionary leader. If you don’t have some of these signs, you can take the lead and improve your skills toward becoming a fully visionary leader.

Credits to dream achievers academy.

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

TODAY,EVERYONE SHALL BE SUPRISED FOR WHAT GOD WILL DO IN YOUR LIFE

 
TODAY,EVERYONE SHALL BE SUPRISED FOR WHAT GOD WILL DO IN YOUR LIFE TODAY
 
 
 
"And He did NOT many mighty works there BECAUSE of their UNBELIEF"

 Mathew 13:58

Our God is almighty, He can do ALL things.However,the extent of the Manifestation of His power in your Life is determined by your level of faith.

The little your Faith is, the Little His miracles in your Life. The greater your Faith is, the Greater His miracles in your Life.

Today, God wants to do Greater things in your Life, are you ready to believe?

Confess"Lord,I declare my Faith on you, I shall never doubt your ability even when situations look negative, I shall have my desires, I SHALL SEE GREATER THINGS IN MY LIFE TODAY "In Jesus Name, So shall it be.

Monday, September 9, 2013

10 REASONS WHY PEOPLE FAIL TO ACHIEVE THEIR DREAMS


WHY PEOPLE FAIL TO ACHIEVE THEIR DREAMS
 
 
 

1. Not Knowing What You Really Want. Mark Twain said he could teach anyone how to get what they want; he just couldn't find anyone who truly knew what they wanted. I agree. Most people don’t know what it is they really want to achieve. They often know what they don’t want, but then that’s where their focus and energy goes—to what they don’t want.
 
Being unclear on what you want is one of the biggest stumbling blocks to success. Paul Meyer says if you’re not achieving the success you desire, it’s simply because your objectives are not clearly defined. Your goals need to be written, specific and measurable. When you talk to others about your goal(s), they should be able to understand it quickly.
 
 
 
2. Lack of Focus. You can be clear on your goal, but if you don’t stay focused, if you take on too much (have too many or conflicting goals), if you fill your life with busy things or operate inconsistently, you will likely fail.
 
 
Focus creates power. A river’s might is harnessed by a dam and focused into electrical energy. Some people say you can achieve everything you want. I don’t believe that. But I do believe you can achieve anything you want—with the right focus.
 
 
 
3. Not Enough Reasons. This one is often overlooked. Reasons come first, answers come second. If you have strong enough reasons, you can accomplish anything you desire. 
 
Significant success demands passion. When your why is strong enough, the how will come. And your desire will sustain you when the challenges and obstacles come your way.
 
 
 
 4. Distractions. All too often we're distracted by other things. Some are outside of our control. Stuff happens. People do things. Events take place. At other times, we become distracted by our own choosing. I call it BSO Syndrome—Bright and Shiny Objects. You begin one goal or project and then start chasing after another.
Sometimes your "great" ideas can work against you. Your next "big idea" can be the enemy of your current project.
We encourage people to work on no more than three major objectives—ones that can have almost daily action toward their achievement. Focus and discipline is needed here (see Number 2 and number 10).

 
5. Lack of Belief—in Yourself and/or in Your Goal. This is often related to worthiness, but there’s more to it. You need to believe in yourself and in the creative process. Winners expect to win. A shortage of belief causes many people to give up or never begin in the first place. In many cases, it causes one to take shortcuts that sabotage their success.
 
Many people simply don’t feel worthy of success. This is a tough one. I can tell you it’s based on an erroneous belief, but you have to get that for yourself. Read the books. Listen to the tapes. Hang out with people who can help you see your highest and best. You deserve to be successful. There is no reason for you not to have what you want unless you ignore the principles of success.
 
 
 
6. Deficient Knowledge. A worthy goal usually requires learning new things. Buckminster Fuller said, "You can’t learn less." Perhaps you’re not sure what it is you need to learn in order to get where you want to go. Find out. But don’t let lack of knowledge keep you from starting. If you wait until you know it all, you’ll never begin. Start from where you are and build the bridge as you walk on it.


 
7. Insufficient Skills. Most likely there are certain skill sets you lack which will hinder your progress. Discover what these are and start today in gaining the necessary skills. Perhaps you need to learn how to effectively use a computer and the Internet. Maybe you need to up-level your communication or time-management proficiency. Even a good attitude is a skill. Enhancing your skills is a lifelong investment that will pay you big dividends.
 
And if you need a skill that you don’t see yourself getting good at or enjoying, find a team member that IS good at those things and focus on what YOU'RE good at doing.
 
 
8. Not Enough Money. Most people think this is the number one reason why they haven’t achieved their dreams. They think that if they just had more money then they would be successful. But it’s rarely a money problem—it’s usually an idea problem. With good ideas and a tenacious spirit, you can get the funding you need.


9. Low Energy. Vince Lombardi said, "Fatigue makes cowards of us all." In order to have the energy and stamina to win, we need to take care of our bodies. Get adequate rest, eat the right foods and refrain from careless and unsafe behavior. Our achievement is our production. Our bodies, our minds and our intuition make up our production capacity. If we don’t properly care for ourselves, we’ll be unable to produce.

 
10. Inadequate or Nonexistent Support. Everyone needs help. You don’t need to go it alone. I’ve seen far too many people fail because they weren’t willing to ask for help or didn’t know where to turn in order to get it. There are always people who can help. Bring in talent and resources from others and make it a win-win situation. Align yourself with organizations that can help you succeed.

credits to sucessnet.org

YOU NEED TO SPEAK DIFFERENT TO BE DISTINGUISHED.


YOU NEED TO SPEAK DIFFERENT TO BE DISTINGUISHED
 
 
 



"When men are CAST DOWN, then YOU SHALL SAY, There is LIFTING up; and he shall SAVE the humble person"

 Job 22:29

This week, you need to speak different for you to be distinguished. When people are complaining and speaking evil, don't join them, SPEAK POSITIVE.

The power of your LIFTING is hidden in your CONFESSING.

When you see others fail, fall sick, being sad or getting loss, that's the right time for you to speak YOUR BRIGHT future.

Every time a negative statement is spoken and it INCLUDES you, EXEMPT yourself by speaking the opposite. When they say, It's hard week, confess "it is special week of my favor and success".

YOU SHALL BE DISTINGUISHED IN EVERYTHING, so shall it be in Jesus Name.

Friday, September 6, 2013

7 WAYS TO FINISH YOUR WEEK WITH HAPPINESS


7 WAYS TO FINISH YOUR WEEK WITH HAPPINESS


 



Are you ready to leave?  Are you done for the week?

Better yet, are you able to leave your work at work?

How you finish up your week can determine whether or not you are able to enjoy your weekend.  It can also impact your return to work on Monday.

So, is there anything you need to do before you leave?

What Do You Need to Finish?

Before you go sprinting out the door on Friday afternoon, take a moment to consider what you need to get done first.

Taking care of business before you leave your business, can allow you to relax and enjoy your time off.

Here are “7 Ways to Finish Your Week” so you can enjoy your weekend…!!!


1.Finish a Task – Too often on Fridays, we end up leaving tasks half done.  We’ll “leave” them until Monday.  This may get us out of work sooner, but it causes us to stress about the unfinished work during our time off.  It also takes more time when we return because we have to pick up where we left off.


2.Connect With Someone – Friday afternoons can be a great time to connect with someone that you have been meaning to catch up with.  Resist the urge to call them (unless they are remote), and go see them in person.  Five minutes connecting in person can make all the difference.


3.Plan For Next Week – Don’t run off into the weekend without looking forward to next week.  Take a few minutes to check your calendar and task list to prepare for Monday and beyond.  You might just prevent yourself from coming back to a crisis.


4.Clean Up – Friday afternoon can be a low energy time.  You may not be in the mood to crunch those numbers.  Instead, use the time to clean up your workspace and recover from the chaos of the week.  When you return on Monday, you will return to a clean desk.


5.Stay Until You Are Done –  Resist the urge to bolt immediately after lunch on Friday.    Stay until your work is done.  The extra time to get your work done will pay off all weekend, as you will not be stressing about unfinished work.


6.Don’t Bring It Home – My rule is, “Unless you are going to work on it over the weekend, then leave it at work.”  That briefcase or bag in the front hall is just going to be a source of guilt all weekend.  And chances are… you won’t touch it.


7.Turn It Off –   Turn off your work email over the weekend. Unless your job requires you to be on call, you don’t need to be checking email.  If something’s on fire, they shouldn’t be sending you an email anyway.

Close Up and Go

Finish your work, so you can leave it behind.

A few extra minutes can make the difference between a peaceful weekend and a bumpy return to work on Monday.

Have a great Friday and enjoy your weekend!

Credits to time management Ninja

GOD SHALL GIVE YOU A REASON TO DANCE TODAY


GOD SHALL GIVE YOU A REASON TO DANCE TODAY



 
 
"You have TURNED for me my MOURNING into DANCING: you have put OFF my SACKCLOTH, and girded me with GLADNESS"

Psalm 30:11

There is a SHIFT in your Life today. Whatever was sent to cause sorrow in your life, God is TURNING it to bring Joy. God is using the SAME negative situation for your ADVANTAGE so that everyone will know that it is Him who helped you.

Everything designed by anyone to bring SHAME in your Life, God is using the SAME to make it your TIME for you to SHINE.

I see EVERYTHING about your Life TURNING today to make you DANCING.

No more disappointment, no more tears, no more crying and no more failure. So shall it be in Jesus Name.

Thursday, September 5, 2013

HOW PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT LEADS TO SUCCESS.

IMPORTANCE OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT.


 
Personal development is the act or process of understanding and developing oneself in order to achieve one’s fullest potential. Personal development is a vital part in a person’s growth, maturity, success and fulfillment. It is the foundation of mature personality, better relationship, happiness, success and prosperity.
Unfortunately, however, not everyone is aware of the importance of personal development. It wasn’t given much attention at home, work or in school.

 People give more importance to academic and professional achievement rather than personal growth. This has caused a lot of emotional struggles that many people go through in life because they lack the soft skills which are crucial to one’s success and happiness. Such lack of self-understanding and principle-centered way of living blocks one’s ability to live an enjoyable and successful life.

I admit that I didn’t know the importance of personal development until I was privileged to attend one personal development training back in 2008. Before that event, I was living my life focused on achieving corporate success in my career as professional accountant. I was eager to achieve career and professional growth that I neglected all the other areas of my life, such as physical health, social relationship, financial growth and stability, and emotional growth.

My career-driven lifestyle resulted for me to live a stressful, tiring and boring life. I was easily irritated, I complain a lot and I always see the negative side of things rather than the positive. I was too strong-willed and closed-minded that it was too hard to cross a point with me.

All these attitudes and actions changed when I learned about personal development. The change is what I often refer to as a great “turning point” in my life. Such turning point created so much positive transformation with who I am and how I live my life now. It turned my negative and closed mindset into an open and positive one. I minimized complaining on what life brings, and instead, I started to see life as my own blueprint.

 I became more practical and realistic that lessens my idealism and perfectionism. I became much conscious on how I spend my time that which helped me prioritize and minimize fatigue. These changes cannot happen if I ignored personal development.
If you find yourself feeling negative all the time, and you can’t stop complaining with a lot of things, I encourage you to start learning and understanding personal development.

Here are some of the reasons why personal development is important:
It helps you understand yourself better
 It assist you in creating your goals and life purpose
 It guides you in managing and spending your time effectively
 It enhances your ability to handle stress, adversity and change
 It supports you in managing your finances more wisely
 It teaches you to build better relationship with people
 It allows you to live a balanced lifestyle
 It provides an opportunity to take care of your health.

Imagine personal development is like a plant. If you take care of it by giving it the reasonable amount of water, sunlight and soil, it will grow into a healthy and beautiful tree. But if you neglect it and won’t pay attention to what kind of nourishment it needs, then expect that plant to get dry and eventually die.

Personal development is like how you nurture of a plant. If you don’t recognize the importance of personal development, you will continue living through life’s hard circumstances feeling like a victim instead of a victor. You will stick to your belief that you cannot do something to change and improve your situation.

As such, you will continue complaining and being negative with almost everything in your life. You will constantly feel lost with your own life purpose, struggling to find who you are and what you want to become.

But if you open yourself in learning personal development, you will experience a great leap in your life. You will start to become more positive in your outlook, you will be more proactive rather than reactive, you will start to create your life rather than letting circumstance create it, you will be able to find your own purpose and enjoy your life to its fullest.

Remember,
“There’s only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self. So you have to begin there, not outside, not on other people. That comes afterward, when you’ve worked on your own corner.” –Aldous Huxley
credits to dephnegan's blog

WHAT THE MOST SUCCESFUL PEOPLE DO ON WEEKENDS




WHAT THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE DO ON THE WEEKEND.

 

MARK ZURKERBURG-FACEBOOK FOUNDER


WHAT THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE DO ON THE WEEKEND.

 

1.The first step to controlling your weekends is making conscious choices.

 

It's so easy to plop down on the couch on a Friday night or Saturday morning and watch T.V., but falling into default activities like this will suck away the few free hours you have available during the week. Instead of doing something by default, choose to decide how your time is spent. 

 

Vanderkam writes, "In a world of constant connectivity, even loafing time must be consciously chosen, because time will be filled with something whether it’s consciously chosen or not—and not choosing means that the something that fills our hours will be less fulfilling than the something our remembering selves will likely wish we’d elected to do."

 

 

2.Make appointments for yourself, even if it's only to read a book.

 

Former Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee says you need to have a plan for the weekend, part of which should be setting specific hours or minutes aside for activities you want to do. Then you have to commit. 

He advises, "If you know you want to read a book, then get the book out and have it set aside and make plans to read it. Say it's going to be at one. When that starts, get on it. Don't wait until that afternoon, then think—could I read? Or listen to some music? Or take a walk? Then you'll sit about wasting an hour of what little time you have figuring out what to do with the rest of it."

You have to be disciplined and commit to the decisions you make. 

 

 

 

3.Planning actually makes weekends happier, and unlocks a key mechanism of joy.

 

Vanderkam cites Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert's 2006 book, Stumbling on Happiness. Gilbert argues, "The greatest achievement of the human brain is its ability to imagine objects and episodes that do not exist in the realm of the real." 

 

Gilbert is talking about anticipation. Anticipation accounts for a huge chunk of happiness, which that comes from thinking about the events we plan. Vanderkam writes, "As you look forward to something good that is about to happen, you experience some of the same joy you would in the moment. The major difference is that the joy can last much longer."

 

 

4.Plan three to five anchor events each weekend, but don't plan out every hour.

 

Vanderkam says most people cringe at the idea of planning their weekend. But placing three to five main or "anchor" events on your calender for the weekend doesn't mean you need to plan them down to the minute. 

She writes, "Three things taking three hours apiece is nine hours of your thirty-six waking ones. That leaves a lot of time for sitting and nursing a scotch, if you don't have three small children, or watching 'The Backyardigans,' if you do." 

 

5.People dislike planning because they associate it with things they want to avoid, rather than things they enjoy.

 

When people do not like the sound of "planning," it's usually because they think of planning things they don't want to do, rather than things they do want to do. 

Planning activities that are enjoyable to you are what define "anchor" events. One reader told Vanderkam, "When you plan enjoyable things ahead of time you magnify the pleasure." 

 

 

6.List out the things you dream about doing most until you find the ones you can do every day.

 

When the weekend rolls around there may be so many things we want to do that we freeze up and end up doing almost none of them. It's effective to have a really good list.

 

Vanderkam suggests people create something called "A List of 100 Dreams," which prompts you to brainstorm anything you might want to do or have in life. Although some things like going to see the pyramids may not be doable right now, by the end of the list you'll be coming up with things you can do every day. 

 

 

7.As you make your plans, don't discount something you haven't done in years.

 

One of Vanderkam's key secrets is to "dig deep." Even if there are activities that you haven't done since childhood, you can still make them part of your regular weekends. 

One of her readers signed up for Saturday morning piano lessons. She says that sometimes parents get so caught up in planning their kids lives that they forget to schedule fun activities for themselves. Pick something that means a lot to you and make it a permanent routine.

 

8.Weekend mornings can be by far the best time to do things for yourself.

 

Weekend mornings are very easily wasted. Instead, set them aside for personal pursuits. 

 

Vanderkam writes, "If you're training for a marathon, it's less disruptive for your family if you get up early to do your four-hour run than if you try to do it in the middle of the day. To get up early, you'll probably have to avoid staying up late the night before, but this is a good idea in general." 

 

 

9.Establish small habits to create new traditions for your family.

 

"Happy families often have some special weekend activity that everyone loves but no one has to plan each time," Vanderkam writes. 

 

It could be as simple as making pancakes or taking an stroll on a Sunday evening. Whatever you'd like to implement, make it a ritual because soon they will become traditions and traditions become comforting memories which are proven to boost happiness. 

 

 

 

10.                Set aside specific hours for "down time" and turn off your phone.

 

It's important to schedule down time, because otherwise you may never unplug. Vanderkam says Jess Lahey, a new Hampshire-based teacher and writer, has official weekend nap time in her house that takes place every afternoon between one and three. 

It's like siestas in Spain where people may not necessarily sleep, but take time to watch a movie or read. No matter what it is, they are using that time to specifically relax. Vanderkam says that in Lahey's family, "Everyone turns their phones off, and Lahey and her husband close the door to the upstairs, [and] read for a bit."

 

 

11.                Be sure to make plans for Sunday night instead of sitting around stressing about your job.

 

Planning something for Sunday nights is an easy way to avoid stressing about work in anticipation of Monday morning. That can happen even when you like your job, but for people who don't like their job, Sunday night stress can be draining and sad.

To combat this, Vanderkam suggests scheduling something during these hours because it extends the weekend and keeps you focused on the fun to come, rather than the next morning. 

 

 

12.                Keep chores, errands, and busy work to a minimum on your days off.

 

There are always things you have to do, but keeping chores, errands, and any sort of busy work to a minimum on the weekends is really important.

Finishing chores shouldn't be central to your weekend because they often expand to fill available time. Instead, try to do a chore each day during the week. If that's not possible then set aside small windows of time during the weekend. For example, set a half an hour on a Friday night between dinner and when you watch a movie to wash the floor, or twenty minutes between your piano lesson and bike ride on Saturday morning to empty the garbage.

Setting small amounts of time will motivate you to get chores done quickly.

 

13.                Make sure to unplug completely for at least a few hours.

 

Have a tech "Sabbath" day. Or at least a few hours in the weekend when you unplug from your email and professional life. 

Although it becomes harder to do that with smart phones and demanding careers, Vanderkam recommends hiding your mail icon on your phone during your "Sabbath" so you are not even tempted to click on messages that spill into your inbox. You may not be able to completely avoid working on the weekends but you can at least carve out a few hours.

 

 

14.                If you live to be eighty years, you'll have 4,160 weekends total, so don't let any go to waste.

4,160 weekends doesn't sound like all that much. It's very easy to feel overwhelmed and simply do nothing (or meaningless things.) But by falling into that trap, Vanderkam points out you may miss the best parts of your own life.

Too often people don't think about what they'd like to do and wind up living constrained versions of life, doing little tasks on a to-do list. 

Vanderkam says, "What the most successful people know about weekends is that life cannot happen only in the future. It cannot wait for some day when we are less tired or less busy." So start with this weekend and do something.

 








 Summary from the book:What succesfull people do on the weekend.




IN EVERY THANKSGIVING,THERE IS A MULTIPLICATION EFFECT.



IN EVERY THANKSGIVING,THERE IS A MULTIPLICATION EFFECT.

 
 
"And out of them shall proceed THANKSGIVING and the VOICE of them that make MERRY: and I will MULTIPLY them, and they shall not be FEW..."

 Jeremiah 30:19

In every thanksgiving there is MULTIPLICATION POWER in it.There moment you thank God for what seems to be small in your life,you release the power for it to be multiplied. Thanksgiving must be VOICED and not MEDITATED.

If you want to SEE ABUNDANCE in every area of your LIFE today, then thank God for what you HAVE so that you get what you DON'T HAVE.

 I see you being multiplied in EVERY area of your Life.

 So shall it be In Jesus Name.

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

LEADERSHIP CLASS-LAW OF CONNECTION(10)


21 IRREFUTABLE LAWS OF LEADERSHIP (John Maxwell)

10 – THE LAW OF CONNECTION

Leaders Touch a Heart Before They Ask for a Hand

 
 
You can’t move people to action unless you first move them with emotion. The heart comes before the head.

The stronger the relationship and connection between individuals, the more likely the follower will want to help the leader.

To connect with people in a group, relate to them as individuals.It’s the leader’s job to initiate connection with the people.

The tougher the challenge, the greater the connection. (106)

 It may sound corny, but it’s really true: People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.

On Boss’s Day in 1994 a full-age ad appeared in USA Today. It was contracted and paid for by the employees of Southwest Airlines, and it was addressed to Herb Kelleher, the company’s CEO:

Thanks, Herb

For remembering everyone one of our names.

For supporting the Ronald McDonald House.

For helping load baggage on Thanksgiving.

For giving everyone a kiss (and we mean everyone).

For listening.

For running the only profitable major airline.

For singing at our holiday party.

For singing only once a year.

For letting us wear shorts and sneakers to work.

For golfing at The LUV Classic with only only one club.

For outtalking Sam Donaldson.

For riding your Harley Davidson into Southwest Headquarters.

For being a friend, not just a boss.

Happy Boss’s Day from Each One of Your 16,000 Employees

Don’t ever underestimate the importance of building relational bridges between yourself and the people you lead.

There’s an old saying:To lead yourself, use your head; to lead others, use your heart.